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Re: ideas needed


From: Michael Miller <mike.mikemiller () gmail com>
Date: Sat, 23 Jul 2011 12:43:46 -0700

I happen to agree with you except.  I don't think giving your child
full unmonitored access is a good idea.  It's not the fear that
someone might abduct my child.  I think that can happen to anyone even
if your a excellent parent.  It's all the other cruft on the internet
that one could look at and be influenced with.  If you think about how
malleable a young mind is.  Do you want your child going down the same
road as John Phillip Walker Lindh? [1]  I know my child will have
access to other places that don't really filter internet access.  Like
the public library were anything goes.  I think the schools try and
keep an eye on what kids are doing though instructor supervision.



[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Walker_Lindh




On Fri, Jul 22, 2011 at 9:59 AM, Mike Patterson <mike () snowcrash ca> wrote:
On 2011/07/20 6:00 PM, CP Constantine wrote:
A good exercise for kids is sort of a re-work of the 1980's
dont-talk-to-strangers campaign. (which was basically, no matter how
much info they have that indicates they actually know you, still deny
trust). is getting kids to ask themselves, how much info about them
would a stranger have to know about them, before they might think this
person was actually a trusted family friend:- now put much less than
that online.

One thing to be cautious of when trying to educate kids is the same
thing that campaign tripped over. Turns out that kids aren't actually
all that much endangered by strangers; parental kidnappings are far more
common, as is abuse. Whoops.

Something I see a lot (and this is a general comment inspired by yours,
not an attack on yours) is ITSec folks getting *really* strident about
OMG DO NOT SHARE ANYTHING EVER IT IS UNSAFE AND YOU WILL BE RAPED AND
KILLED.

Kids get messages like that a lot. About everything. They get
overloaded, and tune you out. Hell, they tune you out anyway, but
there's no reason to give them a real reason to do it. :-) So be
moderate in how you present things.

Mike
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