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RE: Put part of Google on 69/8 (was Re: 69/8...this sucks)


From: "Vivien M." <vivienm () dyndns org>
Date: Wed, 12 Mar 2003 20:58:50 -0500


-----Original Message-----
From: owner-nanog () merit edu [mailto:owner-nanog () merit edu] On 
Behalf Of JC Dill
Sent: March 12, 2003 8:37 PM
To: nanog () merit edu
Subject: Re: Put part of Google on 69/8 (was Re: 69/8...this sucks)

It is offensive to many people (both male and female) when 
someone automatically assumes that an "unknown" person is 
male.  Especially since:
[snip]
It is doubly offensive when you opine that I have an 
obligation to create and use [1] a gender-specific name 
solely to make things easier for you and other sexist jerks^W 
men^W^W induh^H^Hividuals.  What would you do if my name was 
Pat or Chris?  Or if YOUR name was Pat or Chris?

I've had the opposite problem (people thinking I'm female, when I'm not...),
and it can get quite annoying, I agree.

I wonder if perhaps a solution would be doing something I saw a gentleman
from China, IIRC, do on this list quite a while ago. He had added (Mr.) to
his .sig to make it easy for people to figure out his gender. Perhaps this
would be an easyish way to somewhat-subtly warn people of the correct
gender?

Vivien
-- 
(Mr.) Vivien M.
vivienm () dyndns org
Assistant System Administrator
Dynamic DNS Network Services
http://www.dyndns.org/ 


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